Rebel. Abstain. Get married with 10,000 new friends.

Federally-funded Moonie abstinence group "Free Teens USA," which teaches that sex is like sharing a cup you've spit into, also encourages youth to find out

Why Gen.Xers are Rebelling Against Their Divorced Baby Boomer Parents and Seek LASTING LOVE RELATIONSHIPS

A little rebelliousness against your parents could definitely land you a lasting relationship with the Unification Church. Compare the Free Teens statement to Moon's chilling defense against charges of brainwashing.

The "Children" referred to here are adults, not real children. They are adults who chose a religion, lifestyle, or spouse that their parents did not approve of. Parents who can not fathom that their adult children would stop obeying them, may claim their children were being held against their will. The actual case is that adult members of the Unification Church did not agree with the way their parents wanted to run their lives.